We live in a time where every woman wants to be a part of the ‘influencer’ world. She invested all her efforts and energy, talents and abilities in an unreal life. Lost, she wanders through the virtual world of Instagram, eager for attention and love.
An influencer
A modern woman is not called successful and influential, but an ‘influencer’. She does not leave a mark of ‘herself’ but from herself. She gives shallow answers to the deep philosophical questions of who she is, whose she is, where she is from and where she is going but where she is now, what she is doing, what she eats, drinks, what she wears and who she is with.
Selling lies to make money, she hides how she feels, not thinking of a woman as a magnificent being because she wants to give and leave a ‘perfect picture’ of her life with all her abilities and effort. Thus she puts herself in the foreground. She is self-centered, needs attention, views, admiration, confirmation, recognition, but actually she gets ‘fake’ recognition and flattery with likes. The influencer becomes a medium – a bait for the brand, thus obsessing women even more with trends. She influences her followes, is often without style, is inauthentic. She does not want to record bad moments and situations, and forgets that difficulties shape her. By lying to others, she is lying to herself in the unreal world of Instagram where everyone becomes frustrated.
Do female influencers have the power to make a woman of today dull?
Yes, they do by seducing her with fleeting, temporary, irrelevant. How much do they influence young girls that are still searching for themselves? To the extent they do not think and discover their own intelligence and worth.
Influencers with perfect pictures and a perfect life frustrate their followers and do not wish them well. They want their fame and money, and they long for real life and real pictures. With likes and shares, they want to fill a deep wound and a void. The lack of love, tenderness and attention from early childhood, the feeling of wothlessness is compensated by millions of followers in the virtual world.
What does a woman of today need the most?
To reveal to her what a supreme being she is. What does a young woman need to know and hear, see, feel, experience? What should a young woman of today decide for? For man.
Historical women
Brave and daring women have always been born throughout history, who marked the times with life and death for values, ideals, people, homeland and religion. All times have given birth to women who made a difference in society, who stood up for man, for human rights, for their city, their homeland, for the world. Throughout history, there has always been a woman who knew how to say her ‘yes’ to life’s task, life’s vocation, life’s mission. A woman who shone like a beacon in a stormy night, not only to other women, but also to men who wanted to follow her because she knew the Way.
A woman who knew who she was.
A woman who managed to read her calling in life.
A woman who felt very early whose she is, where she comes from and where she is going.
A woman who wasn’t afraid to tell the TRUTH, which freed from the inside, and condemned her from the outside to pay with her life.
To listen to a woman’s inner voice
With the first disobedience of woman, man fell, both man and woman. Today’s woman eats Eve’s apple of disobedience, and history still suffers the consequences today. The word of life settled in the womb. What a grace for life to dwell in woman. What a wonderful being woman can be, when she is entrusted with life, that small fragile being, helplessly and completely dependent on her. To a woman who is selflessness itself.
How to fulfill yourself as a woman?
You always have a chance. It is up to choose yourself.
You are your chance to live the woman in you, so every woman would like to be a ‘woman’. What does today’s woman need the most? Recognition? Valuation? A big salary?
Today’s woman needs to discover who is a woman the most. You are heaven’s gift to earth. You are a supreme being. You are Creator’s thought, longing, His love. You are a project, He is still creating you, counting on you. You are unique, unrepeatable, origina. Out of 7.5 billion people, no one is like you. Doesn’t that tell you that you are immensely important? A young woman needs to know the truth that she is a miraculous being. A woman needs to hear witnesses, she needs to see examples, feel that she is loved before anyone loved her, experience her own worth. Woman, you are valuable only because you exist!
Woman
It is not enough that you are a woman by your sex, but it is necessary that you want to be a woman. If a woman does not want to be a ‘woman’; if she does not want to be a woman, nothing womanly can come out of her. She cannot give birth to anyone, bring out anything, breed anything. The main task of a woman is: ‘you can be a woman’, but if you do not want to and cannot fulfill yoursef, if you are not able to, if you do not know how, you are not a woman, you are man of pain and suffering. Man of wounds, man who massacres, kills, who brings discord and disturbance. You are still man, but man who needs health and healing.
A woman who wants to be a woman
So, the one who wants to be a woman, can be a woman. It is not necessary to give birth to a child, but you are a woman because you want to be a woman. That is why you give birth, create and bring. You give birth to man inside the man even if he isn’t your biological child. You make society new, you make the world better because you are a woman. Humanity desperately needs women!
Awaken in yourself the will to ‘be’ a woman. Come to life. Want to ‘be’ a WOMAN. No one asked you if you wanted to be a woman. Simply, without any permission, you were thrown into the world of women. You are a woman, whether you want it or not. This is your time, because it is your wish. You are being born again. Although you have heard this countless times: ‘Oh, it is not easy for women. Poor women. It is more difficult for women than for men. Women are the sufferers. Women suffer labor pains, ugh…’ Enough! Now you want to be a woman.
This is your choice, your consent. You accept being a woman. You receive yourself as a gift. It is obviously magnificent to be a woman, when Someone wanted you, made you, loved you first, planned you specifically, unique. It seems that this world needs a woman – specifically you. History will write your name through existence. It is nice that a woman exists!
Hagioassistent and evangelizer, born in 1962 in Poličnik near Zadar, now lives in Samobor, married, mother of six daughters. The first turning point in her life was made by Professor Ivančić’s seminar in 1983 in Zagreb. She encountered hagiotherapy in 2000. Intensive training in hagiotherapy begins with the 1st International Study of Hagiotherapy held in 2009 in Zagreb. The Center for Hagiotherapy in Samobor was founded in 2012. She holds individual hagiotherapies, forums, regular hagiotherapy meetings on Wednesdays in Samobor and seminars for evangelization in Croatia and Europe.
