Revolution of a woman – Movement of Love
In the time of civilization, we live in an inhumane society, where man is the enemy of man. It is extremely important to reconcile the irreconcilable. Let the wars cease and let peace prevail because the 21st century should be the century of the spirit.
Woman and man
There are massive protests on the streets. Who is against whom? What came between the two of them? Division. Hostility. Rivalry. Jealousy. Envy. Intolerance. Anger. Hatred. Condemnation. Indifference. How did enmity creep in between them? To prey on each other’s heel, take away the right. How to fight not against each other, but for each other? They came into the world in the same way, received life in the same way. They live equally on earth. They look just like man. Their nature is the same, human, but they still do not get by the same. Apparently, men are stronger and women are weaker. It seems that more is demanded of them, and more is entrusted to them. They seem to suffer more, and they have ruled for a long time. But they need each other equally. To confirm him, to express to him that he is good, valuable. To experience her, to admire her. To respect him and praise him. To confess to her, listen to her and love her.
How to fight against something that is against us, male and female? It leaves us one thing – to reunite – for the One! How to overcome division? To unite into One!
A promiscuous man and a hurt woman
Unfortunately, every woman in a certain situation and period of life has experienced harassment and humiliation by a man in public. Should it be taken for granted? To wave our hand? To be embarassed and withdraw? To subconsciously or consciously the male gender? Not to dare to confront, stand up for yourself? To be angry at yourself for not reacting? To fall into self-pity and believe that you are the weaker seks? That she is miserable? That it is her own fault? That she provoked it by something? To turn against yourself?
All this nestles in the wounded personality of a young woman, full of life – who suddenly closes her heart. She puts a serious mask on her face, with a cold look, without a smile. She puts on rudeness as a defensive stance, and her heart of stone stops beating. Over time, she withdraws into solitude, and her biological clock is ticking. If she is not treated, hatred is created, which turns into aggression, directed towards men.
Such symptoms indicate a difficult diagnosis – women against men.
The diagnosis is :
- Endangered life – deep existential fear, nervousness, dissatisfaction
- Trampled dignity – feeling unloved, failure, humiliated, devalues herself and feels incapable
- Wounded personality – falling out of her centre, hurt emotions
The consequences are feelings of shame and fear of men.
A woman’s voice and a man’s impotence
Women fought for freedom. Is it freedom to show your naked body for advertising or is it freedom to stand up for yourself, take a stand? That is why women today massively share their own painful experiences of sexual harassment via social networks. Although they thereby deepen the wound of personality, they dare to be revolutionary! Should and can a woman react in that woman of humiliation? Will she act instinctively, like a wounded lioness, like a man or will she seek and discover the cause of an inhuman act?
Only through hagiotherapy she can cure her heart and raise up her trampled dignity.
She can discover the cause of the destructive behaviour of a man. The cause is always evil, and that is the lack of good. Evil is the destruction of existence. Man (male) who is evil, is unhuman. Only his body exists, instincts, lusts. That is why he does evil because he has fallen to a psychophysical, animal level.
Hagioterapeutic anthropology reveals who man is from the aspect of the spiritual dimension, as the center of man and the origin of everything. Likewise, at the level of the spirit, the power of the Spirit, the One who sees everything, can do everything and only wants good, is revealed. Being is spiritual and God is spirit. If a woman clothes herself with this power from above, she can start a revolution of the spirit. Not against man, but for humanity!
A woman thus healed has the strength of spirit with which she has the ability to stand up for herself in disastrous situations. A woman as man is a free being. Man is freest when he loves. Each organ of the spirit has its own functions and powers. Power is something from which one can and should act.
The first woman in his life
The greatest enemy of a woman is a hurt and wounded man. Hurt men were bereft and poor in knowledge and discovery about women despite their great achievements and titles. Therefore, such men perceive a woman as secondary, an object and a threat. Men need role models. Their identity needs to be confirmed. Role models who teach them that violence, the army and sports are not confirmation of identity. Therefore, a man should be made aware that standing up for man in need and caring for a person is a validating factor. The first woman in his life is his mother. This relationship is a reflection of his relationship with all women. By healing the image of a woman, a man learns to love a woman as a person, and not just to posses and love her as something ‘fleeting’.
Only man and woman create and give birth to indestructible life. They cannot be one without the other. They are only complete together. In order for a woman to open her heart to a man, and for a man to have the courage to approach her, preventive action should be taken. It is necessary to heal the image of a man and a woman.
The movement of love in four steps
The first step – to separate the act from the perpetrator. To love him, to have compassion for his weakness. He is not evil because he wants to be evil, but the evil in him has destroyed his ability to be good.
The second step – to give thanks for the men who are on our life path. While you love him and give thanks for him, your anger and hostility towards men will slowly melt away.
The third step – a new trust that you complement each other will grow. That is why he says to himself in the spirit: ‘I forgive you, just you, man. I understand you. I trust you.’
The fourth step – forgive me too because I got angry. Forgive me for thinking that men are the problem, and not evil. For constantly condemning men and not the act. I accept our differences and I will not give up on you!
Hagioassistent and evangelizer, born in 1962 in Poličnik near Zadar, now lives in Samobor, married, mother of six daughters. The first turning point in her life was made by Professor Ivančić’s seminar in 1983 in Zagreb. She encountered hagiotherapy in 2000. Intensive training in hagiotherapy begins with the 1st International Study of Hagiotherapy held in 2009 in Zagreb. The Center for Hagiotherapy in Samobor was founded in 2012. She holds individual hagiotherapies, forums, regular hagiotherapy meetings on Wednesdays in Samobor and seminars for evangelization in Croatia and Europe.
